Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Submissive woman are ?



I love the reality of a woman giving herself over to me. I think that is one of the most couragous and wonderful things a woman can do- to give herself as a complete toy to please and serve her Master- to want to pleasure and service another human being. A submissive woman like this should be in a sense honoured and treated like a national treasure !

Of course a a submissive woman's desires are made up from a mixture of some of these things :-


  • A willingness to serve.
  • A need to give control to another.
  • A desire to be under the control of another.
  • A craving to be used.
  • A longing to be humiliated.
  • A hunger to be disciplined.

A sub woman has an addiction and the strenght/desire of her addiction can be of different levels :-

Kinky sensualist.
This is a nob-submissive masochist looking for pain mixed with sensuality. Not into humiliation or degredation or servitude or giving up control. Only looking for pleasire on the masochist’s own terms for the masochist’s own pleasure.

Temporary submissive.
Loves role-playing various ‘submissive’ scenario’s (French maid, young pupil etc). Not into servitude and generally wants to control/direct all the role-playing.

Play slave.
Like to play at being a slave to satisfy partner’s dominant desires but really only acting to fulfil another’s desires. Generally has a deep kink linked to their role-playing (light spanking or hair pulling or shoe fetishist?).

Real submissive / non slave.
Gives up some control within defined limits and generally only for a short amount of time. Mainly into the thrill of giving up control and this submissive gets their pleasure not only from pleasing their dominant but also from their own enjoyment of what is happening.

Real submissive / play slave.
Gives up control completely within defined limits and time constraints. Gets their main pleasure from pleasing a dominant and being the object of their use and desire.

Real submissive / un-committed part time slave.
Gives up control completely within limits. Loves being a dominant’s slave but generally only for a set period of time. Loves pleasing a dominant and not just sexually but with other services (house work etc).

Committed part time slave.
Gives up control completely within limits. Loves being a dominant’s slave but generally only for a set period of time. Loves pleasing a dominant and not just sexually but with other services (house work etc). Has committed themselves to being a dominant’s slave, generally working around a normal ‘vanilla’ job/life.

Slave.
Gives up control completely (within few limits) and lives completely at their dominant’s home to serve them completely. Usually also involves a slave contract (for an initial period) which then at the dominant’s pleasure and agreement can/will become open-ended.

No limits slave.
Ultimate slavery where the slave has no rights except those allowed by her/his owner.
Slave is deemed a complete possession and piece of property completely under the control and direction of their owner.


So into which category (or any?) would you put yourself in?

I do love to chat and find out exactly how a submissive realised what she is....


Michael.

1 comment:

~hoovsies~ said...

Good day Michael,
Upon reading your blog entry, I believe there is a definition of submissive you neglected to state. That of "Natural Submissive". I am a natural submissive. I am not kink driven nor lifestyle defined.We do not live to merely submit to one person but all of society.We are submissive 24/7 alone or with others. A natural submissive cannot exist in serving just one...a falsely accepted norm of the lifestyle.We share our beauty, harmony, service and femininity with all.We love ourselves and constantly seek to grow and evolve as women.While true, our soul's goal is to find our dominant half in whose heart we can be totally free, loved and accepted.Also true, kink can play a part in who we are but does not drive us. Submissives who only seek to submit for sexual gratification only, are not true submissives but "bottoms".They submit only to receive something they desire...which goes against real submission. If you only submit to ultimately satisfy your own needs, then in my eyes you are nothing more than vanilla seeking your kink.Submission is a condition of the heart I feel, not the private parts.I could go on and on, kind gentleman but I feel my gist has been understood. I thank you for your time and consideration and I wish you a wonderful day.

Sincerely,
~hoovsies~