Seems if you want to put a default photo in your profile it has to be online somewhere already.

A sneeky way around this is to put it into one of you blog postings and then link to it.

This is what I am doing here by linking my profile to the photo above.



Michael Noel.

A slave's real natural mindset or creed.

Since my previous posting on slave's and their creed- I have had some messages from people describing the same thing in different ways. A lady in Florida sent along the below. She said it is not hers, so if anyone knows who wrote it let me know and I can give them credit for it. I think it basically states the mindset a slave should have and puts it in concise terms. If you do not agree with it (and still think yourself a real slave) I believe you are following the wrong submissive lifestyle and don't really know who you are !




If You Want Be A Slave
If you want to be a slave, If you want to be enslaved, You must show him your inner strength as well as your unquestioning trust.
If you wish be found pleasing to him, you must struggle to please him and not yourself.
If you wish to devote your life to him, you must learn that your role is not as his peer.
If you would consider yourself his, are you prepared to be slave even when its not easy or fun?
If you call yourself slave, will you obey even in fury or tears?
Do you eliminate the "If"s from your vocabulary, and realize that slavery is not conditional?
A slave gives from the heart, she doesn't consider it a "gift" Its not all wrapped up in rainbows and pink ribbons, Its bound in determined sacrifice and decorated with her tears of pain, effort, and bliss Its the sheerest, most primitive, raw expression of self she can give She gives only what is left, after the pride and defences crumble and she is left exposed to his eyes She gives herself, because she could not imagine not giving to him. She is bound by own need, as strongly than the steel around her neck
You have no right to expect to be respected, to expect love in 'return' for your slavery. You have nothing to expect, except that he will do as he pleases.
You have no right to censor your slavery, or your thoughts or deeds.
Are you ready to be treated as a slave? Are you ready to put someone's happiness above your own?
Do you put aside your own desires and accept that they will only be fulfilled if he chooses to do so?
Are you ready to strive always to please, and to not grow lazy and ride on past successes?
Do you have the ability to lose your selfishness, your sense of looking after yourself first?
Can you leave your pride behind?
Consent is given once, when the collar is begged. For a slave, there is no limits or conditions on consent. Everything is given then, in that one moment, when a girl crawls to beg for ownership, regardless of whether it is denied or not. Consent doesn't involve negotiating; a power you gave up the moment you felt his ownership.
You have no power once you surrender all.
Never give what is most sacred to you, if you cannot trust this person with your life.
Never forget, it's not about you anymore.
Never lose sight that it is a privilege to be owned, and a huge responsibility to those who own you. Never forget to be grateful if someone does take on you as a possession.
Never give what is most sacred to you, if you cannot trust this person with your life.
Never forget, it's not about you anymore.
Never lose sight that it is a privilege to be owned, and a huge responsibility to those who own you. Never forget to be grateful if someone does take on you as a possession.


Now I am off to visit a slave in France (lucky me) and will be back in October.
Just leave me a message and I will reply, on my return.


Michael Noel.

Slave contracts- a good or bad thing?

I was chatting to a lady from Poland yesterday about this topic, about whether a written contract was needed or necessary or just a decoration to a Master/slave relationship.
Basically a slave contract cannot legally be enforced and if you need a contract to enforce a relationship, then you are missing the point of it being consensual.

Of course possibly there are good reasons for a written contract, some of which are :-

· Some people like everything written down. They like to know the limits and boundaries of their slavery. It is a tool for minds to help them deal with their slavery.
· Some people like the psychological effect of a contract as if it is ‘forces’ them to complete a term of service. It is another layer of ownership like a tattoo or a slave collar or a brand.
· It might be true that a contract would be useful for legal or practical reasons. If your home is searched by the police and your slave is in bondage (or locked up in the basement!), the document will to some extent certify (?) the reality of the existence you both live by.

I have enclosed a sample slave contract below, on the off chance that people haven’t seen what I am taking about.

Sample Slave Contract.
Unknown Author

This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed the slave and the master (both terms are intended to be independent of sex). This agreement is legal and binding. This agreement must be entered voluntarily, but cannot be broken except under the conditions stated herein, after which certain precautions shall be taken to protect those involved. (See section 7.0.0)
1.0.0 Slave's Role
The slave agrees to submit completely to the master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the master without risking punishment, except in situations where the slave's veto (see section 1.0.1) applies. The slave also agrees that, once entered into the Slavery Contract, their body belongs to their master ,, to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein. All of the slave's possessions likewise belong to the master , including all assets, finances, and material goods, to do with as they see fit. The slave agrees to please the master to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said master .
1.0.1 Slave's Veto
The slave, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the master , at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both master and slave:

· Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave .
· Where said command may cause extreme damage to slave's life, such as losing their job, causing family stress,etc.
· Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0) to the slave .
· Where said command may cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave that has been raped in the past.

2.0.0 Master's Role
The master accepts the responsibility of the slave's body and worldly possessions, to do with as they see fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The master agrees to care for the slave , to arrange for the safety and well-being o f the slave , as long as they own the slave . The master also accepts the commitment to treat the slave properly, to train the slave, punish the slave, love the slave, and use the slave as they see fit.
3.0.0 Punishment
The slave agrees to accept any punishment the master decides to inflict, whether earned or not.
3.0.1 Rules of Punishment
Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0). Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:

· Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
· Burning the body
· Drastic loss of circulation
· Causing internal bleeding
· Loss of consciousness
· Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time

4.0.0 Permanent Bodily Harm
Since the body of the slave now belongs to the master , it is the master's responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm. Should the slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slaveryrelated activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract should the slave so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as:

· Death
· Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.
· Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the slave .
· Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the slave .
· Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the slave .
· Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases.

5.0.0 Others
The slave may not seek any other master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the master's permission. To do so will be considered a breach of contract and will result in extreme punishment. The master may accept other slaves or lovers, but must consider the slave's emotional response to such actions and act accordingly. Under no circumstance should the master allow such actions to unbalance the slave emotionally, or allow such actions to result in ignoring the slave . The master may give the slave to other masters, provided the rules of this contract are upheld. In such a situation, the master will inform the new master of the provisions stated herein, and any breach by the new master will be considered a breach by the master as well, subject to all rules stated in this contract.
6.0.0 Secrecy
All physical evidence of the slavery will be kept in total secrecy, except where both master and slave agree. Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.
7.0.0 Alteration of Contract
This contract may not be altered, except when both master and slave agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.
8.0.0 Termination of Contract
This contract may be terminated at any time by the master , but never by the slave, except under special conditions explained within this contract. Upon termination, all physical evidence of the slavery, including this contract, will be destroyed, and all materials and belongings shall belong to the master , to be shared or kept as they see fit. The slave , owning nothing and having agreed to give up all worldly possessions and body to the master , shall once again own their body, but nothing else, unless the master decides to give back their possessions.
9.0.0 Slave's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give everything I own to my master, and further accept their claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand tha I will be commanded and trained and punished as a slave, and I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my master to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this contract except as stated in this contract.

Signature:____________

9.0.1 Master's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a slave. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.

Signature:____________

Obviously most people will customise this contract to reflect the special needs/desires of the Master and slave.

So what do people think- are slave contracts are good or bad thing?



Michael Noel.

p.s. I am interested in seeing any unusual contracts, if they are not held privately.

Should slaves have a creed to live by ?

Should slaves have a philosophy to live by- I think they should as otherwise how are they going to learn and grow in service to their Master?

Here is one possible general slave lifestyle creed. Think of it almost as a slave's religion- her love of her Master.

THE SUBMISSIVES CREED

• I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent the Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
• I will not try to manipulate the Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not top from the bottom.
• I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
• I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases the Master, and will do my best to fulfill his wishes and desires.
• I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive does not equal doormat. I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
• I will be responsive to the Master. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect the Master to know thoughts or feelings, which I do not share.
• I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on the Master when it is not warranted simply because Master is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out, as they should at times, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.
• I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of topping me non-consensual, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.
• I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.
• I will be obedient to the Master even if I disagree with what Master is requesting. I realize Master has my best interests at heart and often knows better than I what I need in a particular situation.
• I know that my actions reflect upon the Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.
• Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.
  
  

Since nothing is ever perfect- what would you add or change on this list?

Michael Noel.

My slave requirements

Slave requirements *

Essentially I am not looking for a wife, a mother, a sister, a lover or a girlfriend. I am looking for a woman to own as my slave for the rest of her life.



You need to be :-

Ø an EU citizen.
Ø a woman who wants to be owned completely (see limits below).
Ø have to be sexually attractive, as you will whore for me part time.
Ø Sane.
Ø 18 years or older.
Ø Ability to relocate to Dublin.





General thoughts.
I plan to tattoo you with an ownership mark- undecided yet what and where that will be.

You will sign a slavery contract- this is just another sign to initially prove your seriousness.

Depending on how you currently earn a living- I will decide if that continues as I make you whore for me. I decide how you live, act, dress, work, fuck, look and live.

Interaction with your family and friends- no one lives in a vacuum, so you will continue with your normal family relationships (if you have them) - to them you will still be their sister/daughter/aunt and none of them will know you are now a real slave/whore/piece of meat who is owned by me.

I own you and initially you will not live with me. I plan to slowly (after I train you) immerse your life with mine- in ways you haven’t even imagined. Good things take time.

Once you have proven to me, that you want to be owned until you die- you will then deed to me all your materials possessions- obviously if I own you, then I also own everything you own.



Limits-
I am not into scat or blood, as I do want to have a healthy slave.

Unless they are really needed (or to improve your earning potential?) I do not like un-necessary medical body modifications.

If you currently have children- we can mold/design your future life as my slave to allow you to deal with your responsibilities.

Breeding. Only when (if?) I obtain 2 slaves to own- so this will not be an initial issue.

Other limits are what are legal and possible- we can talk these out but I will make the final decision.



How to contact me.

Obviously reply to this blog or an email to noeldomxxx@yahoo.co.uk, describing yourself, why you need to be my slave, your previous experience and enclosing a facial photo. I will reply and we can start from there. I have had too many time waster contacting me, so I will ask you to prove yourself with some simple initial tasks to prove you are who you say you are and that you are for real.



Michael Noel.



* This is a repeat of the entry I put up on my yahoo profile (http://uk.360.yahoo.com/noeldomxxx).

Slaves are born, not made.

I believe some people are heterosexual, some are homosexual, some are bisexual while real slaves are just "subsexual."

This means that your slavery or submissiveness is not a choice, but a destiny. It is almost irrelavent to your sexual orientation. Your innate need to live as someone's slave and property is not just a desire but a complete craving and addiction- that you can't life without.

You will always be unhappy, unless you live your life as someone's property.

So do you agree with these comments?


Does this discribe the real you, that you keep hidden inside you and don't know how to express or develop? Love to hear from you if you completely agree with this comments or even just wish to discuss them.


Michael.

Here's some wanking tasks for you sluts to complete..

Masturbation Tasks.

Let's see what you can do.

Try and work your way through the tasks and let us know how far you got. A real whore will have completed a lot of these already !.

EASY!
1. Masturbate anywhere in a store.
2. Masturbate in a public restroom - (male and female rooms)
3. Masturbate at the computer (if you need assistance, IM me!) -
4. Masturbate watching porno.5. Masturbate watching self in a mirror.
6. Masturbate in the shower or bath.
7. Masturbate with food.
8. Masturbate with a homemade or strange toy.

MODERATE:
9. Masturbate in parking lot may be in your car.
10. Masturbate in a Store or Shop dressing rooms.
11. Masturbate in a Public Restroom (outer garments removed(male and female rooms)
12. Masturbate in a Resturant - (on and under the table)13. Masturbate in an Elevator - (a glass one for more risk !)
14. Masturbate with a someone watching.
15. Masturbate while talking to a friend or relative on the phone.
16. Masturbate with frozen dildo (wet plastic one left in the fridge will do!)

EARLY ADVANCED:
17. Masturbate in the woods or park
18. Masturbate in an alleyway .
19. Masturbate with someone else who is naked - [Both male & female]
20. Masturbate before an open window
21. Masturbate while using public transportationtrain, tram, taxi, ferry and probably others
22. Masturbate another as she returns the favour - (both male and females)
23. Masturbate in a public library.
24. Masturbate in a club or bar (love to hear how you get on with that !)

So are you a real dirty whore or not?

*laughs*

comment to let me know if anyone completes all these wanking tasks..


Michael.

Submissive woman are ?

I love the reality of a woman giving herself over to me. I think that is one of the most couragous and wonderful things a woman can do- to give herself as a complete toy to please and serve her Master- to want to pleasure and service another human being. A submissive woman like this should be in a sense honoured and treated like a national treasure !

Of course a a submissive woman's desires are made up from a mixture of some of these things :-

• A willingness to serve.
• A need to give control to another.
• A desire to be under the control of another.
• A craving to be used.
• A longing to be humiliated.
• A hunger to be disciplined.

A sub woman has an addiction and the strenght/desire of her addiction can be of different levels :-

Kinky sensualist.
This is a nob-submissive masochist looking for pain mixed with sensuality. Not into humiliation or degredation or servitude or giving up control. Only looking for pleasire on the masochist’s own terms for the masochist’s own pleasure.

Temporary submissive.
Loves role-playing various ‘submissive’ scenario’s (French maid, young pupil etc). Not into servitude and generally wants to control/direct all the role-playing.

Play slave.
Like to play at being a slave to satisfy partner’s dominant desires but really only acting to fulfil another’s desires. Generally has a deep kink linked to their role-playing (light spanking or hair pulling or shoe fetishist?).

Real submissive / non slave.
Gives up some control within defined limits and generally only for a short amount of time. Mainly into the thrill of giving up control and this submissive gets their pleasure not only from pleasing their dominant but also from their own enjoyment of what is happening.

Real submissive / play slave.
Gives up control completely within defined limits and time constraints. Gets their main pleasure from pleasing a dominant and being the object of their use and desire.

Real submissive / un-committed part time slave.
Gives up control completely within limits. Loves being a dominant’s slave but generally only for a set period of time. Loves pleasing a dominant and not just sexually but with other services (house work etc).

Committed part time slave.
Gives up control completely within limits. Loves being a dominant’s slave but generally only for a set period of time. Loves pleasing a dominant and not just sexually but with other services (house work etc). Has committed themselves to being a dominant’s slave, generally working around a normal ‘vanilla’ job/life.

Slave.
Gives up control completely (within few limits) and lives completely at their dominant’s home to serve them completely. Usually also involves a slave contract (for an initial period) which then at the dominant’s pleasure and agreement can/will become open-ended.

No limits slave.
Ultimate slavery where the slave has no rights except those allowed by her/his owner.
Slave is deemed a complete possession and piece of property completely under the control and direction of their owner.


So into which category (or any?) would you put yourself in?

I do love to chat and find out exactly how a submissive realised what she is....


Michael.

Sex Addict seeks fix- but not a cure !!

Love admiring / looking / touching women- am I an addict.. oh yeah.

Took a while to be at peace (in a sense) with being a lech and a dominant one at that. Not really socially acceptable to lust after women and want to own / play with them as sex toys. When I was younger I felt guilty about it, but now I just treat my desires as being another one of my traits, like my love of food or my height or love of reading.

I love the female form especially if it has curves- I am not a fan of 'stick insects'- I want a woman, not a man. Picked the enclosed photo at random to show real women having fun and enjoying themselves. I am such a horny whore I'd love the thought of having each and every one of them- I'm greedy when it comes to lust... or if I was a girl, I'd be called a wanton wench or a slut and I'd take that as a compliment !!

horny regards,


michael.